Was tidying the jewellery drawer earlier on and came across gifts received in the past. Every single one has their own story and meaning behind it. I remember how touched I was when I received each of them, but I doubt what I felt then now. Its so easy to buy me over back then.
Girls are so easy to please, a last minute gift, words sweet as honey, a promise made to please. As I grow up, it dawned on me that I'm not a child attracted by colorful candies anymore. Presents and gifts never bring pleasure the way they used to. I'd rather buy things that I like myself now. There's no rush to be bought over, I'd rather trust my own taste!
When we were younger, we crave for approval. We were too hasty and tensed while anticipating the arrival of the one true match. We have often changed ourselves in some way or other in order to please our other halves, or perhaps, in another point of view, we have tried to change them to protect ourselves resulting in unhappiness on both parties in the end.
What is a true match then? I would say two people not trying to change each other despite all their flaws. If these two people can still be together without attempting to change each other, that would be the best answer.
To me: You are your own woman. You can fly with your own wings. Before Mr Right finally finds his way to you, live a colorful life full of dreams, hopes and faith! x Alis volat propriis.
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